Tomorrow will mark the 9th
Anniversary of “World Down Syndrome Day” and each year the voice of people with
Down syndrome, and those who live and work with them grows louder. But there is
still so much more to do!
Today is the day that some in the
world have seen fit to change the virtue and value of the lives of those with
Down syndrome. You can count our family in on this day! There is so much that
comes to mind for Dylan, myself, Greg and his baby sister that highlights our
appreciation and gratefulness for Down syndrome.
Over the last two and a half years our
journey with “disability” in the context of raising a growing and young family
we often wondered what the impact of Dylan’s life would be? Would he be able to
play, grow and learn like other’s his age? Would he be accepted by others,
would he be bullied? There are many other questions that can flood the mind of
a parent in the midst of disability. A parent’s response to the ongoing
challenges brought on by a child’s diagnosis directly impacts every
relationship in the family. By God’s grace over the last couple of years we
have been able to see, hear, and experience the impact that Down syndrome has
had on Dylan first hand. He is nothing but pure joy, and has love written all
over his face. When people ask me “how is he doing”? This is my response: “He
is doing amazing! He will go far in life because he is one determined little
boy. Dylan will reach his own goals just like your child will and on his own
time.” I will push him because I am his mom and I only want the best for him. He
will do things that he wants to do, he will play the sports he wants to play
and he will learn the way he wants to learn and follow every dream that may
come his way. Just because he is different, does not mean he will be anything
but perfect! I am his voice and a voice for all of the other families out
there. I will fight for my son and continue to change the views of these
amazing kids, and pray that we will see more inclusion around the world!
There are so many little ways that
their character and worldview has been impacted by disability. They recognize
the good in everyone and always have a smile on their face! Disability is obviously
in our midst, but Dylan is just Dylan, he is our primary existence as an
individual, our son, and a loving human being that god created. We know that we
have a long way to go in our parenting, but it is no different than any other
parent in the world. It has been a great encouragement to see that disability
has not served as a wedge between our family and the character of God. No, far
from it. Down syndrome, and disability in general, has been nothing but pure
joy and more love then I could have ever imagined!
I truly hope both of my children
know how much we love them, and how much we have prayed over them and how much
joy they bring to our hearts. As they grow older and the voices of this world
become louder in their lives, I pray they always know how much they are loved and
stand tall for who they are as a person and, that they were put on this earth
for a reason! So on this day our family
stands blessed, proud, changed, and more in love with what Down syndrome has
brought to our lives. This is all in part of God creating Dylan together
especially for our family!
God made my brother perfect
If
you are the parent, family member or friend of a person with Down syndrome, you
should be contemplating how to celebrate one of the most important days of the
year: World Down Syndrome Day.
03/21 is the day set aside to celebrate the triplication
of chromosome 21 that is the genetic composition of people with this condition.
This
special event has been created to generate awareness about the abilities and
possibilities of people with Down syndrome. As a special fact, it is estimated
that around 6 million people in the world live with this condition and we are
all more alike than we know.
Happy
Down Syndrome Day!
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